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Ryssa Chrysalis: In my 40s. 20+ years of living with women; now I'm playing with men and women. Guess that means I'm bi {wink}. Polyamorous. Very kinky. Submissively kinky. Masochistic and kinky. Crave power exchange but on my terms. Sex positive in that I won't think any act that brings sexual gratification between consenting adults is something bad, evil, or wrong. That being said, just because I'm sex positive and bisexual doesn't mean I will sleep with you. I'm just plain picky. I know darn good and well I'm a handful as well as a pain in the ass. And I'm busy with a job and love. I'm smart. Really smart. I don't care if my partners are as smart or smarter than me. I just want people to be able to keep up with me and not let me run over them. I just might, you know. I lost a bunch of weight after gastric bypass and that really messes with my brain when people react to me as if I'm attractive. Of course I'm body conscious. I'm also sensual and sexual. And confused at how I turned into Ms. Popularity. This blog is a lot of me writing out what I'm thinking. Sometimes it's formal writing, sometimes just stream of consciousness. Favorite quote: "Plan? What plan? I'm making this up as I go along."